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Exciting object

Mentioned in Fairbairn's endopsychic structural theory

Paired with libidinal ego part-self.

This was introduced in Fairbairn's 1944 paper, Endopsychic structure considered in terms of object-relationships.

Exciting object it an unattainable idealization, implied promise of love. It's based holding onto the few times where its perceived a parent was loving.